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Prayer should be a conversation with your best friend, because God should be your Best Friend. It is a most precious gift that we often neglect. Prayer has power. Children of all ages should be encouraged to converse regularly with God. They should be taught that God is their Heavenly Father who loves them dearly and wants to hear from them regularly.
Do you remember the first time you heard a child pray? It’s difficult to describe the innocence and simple faith as a child prays out loud. A child may go on almost endlessly thanking God for their toys, mom and dad, their siblings, their pet, the neighbors up and down the street, and many things we take for granted. A child’s ability to remember many details and things for which to thank God puts most adults to shame.
When should a child be taught to pray? Well, from birth. He should not be able to remember a time when he did not see and hear his parents pray. Praying before a meal should be such an established habit that a child wouldn’t think of eating without first bowing her head and thanking God for the food. If you’ve really taught your child the importance of praying, he’s likely to be the one to remind you to pray when you might forget it.
By the time a child is two, you can begin teaching her to fold her hands, close her eyes and say "Amen" at the close of a blessing you ask on the food. He can be taught to say grace before he eats his snack. This can become habit-forming.
Children should be taught from the earliest age that God loves them and that He is their Friend. Friends spend time with each other—they talk to each other. God wants an ongoing relationship with your child, no matter what age. Help children learn to express their gratitude, joys, frustrations, and ask for God’s help. If they have a problem, they should talk it over with God. He can help, no matter what it is.
Children should be taught that they should expect answers, but that God knows best. Sometimes what they ask for is not always what is best for them. God has the power to do anything He would like, but He wants what is good for us, which may not be what we’ve asked for. Children should be taught to trust God to provide what is best for them and answer their prayers accordingly. God never tires of hearing our voices and He never tires of hearing the voice of a child. "And Jesus said, Suffer the little children and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven" (Matthew 19:14).
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